Everyone knows that dogs make great best friends. As a mom of an only child, my son has never known a time when there was not a dog. Anyone who has read my book notes that my Great Dane, Dora has served as his companion and playmate for all of his life. When we were looking for Dora, many of the rescue agencies deemed us as an unfit home because we had a child. But this is silly.
Dogs are literally born to be a part of our families. There are certain breeds that are better suited for this role than others and I will list my personal top five. In my own opinion, it is merciful to adopt and not shop, but each breed has its own rescue groups so you can certainly find pure bred dogs that need you too.
#1 – Golden Retriever
Recent studies have shown that the golden retriever literally has a genetic tendency for a good temperament. These beautiful, calm, and friendly dogs are the perfect family member. They are ready to play when it is play time and ready to snuggle when it is downtime. They are easily trained for basic obedience and can be all things to all people.
#2 – The Beagle
A beagle is a fun loving dog who is ready to play whenever your children are. He is forgiving when accidentally stepped on and less likely to bite in response to pain than some dogs. He is an excellent size for taking part in all of the family activities and because he was bred to function as a working member of the pack, it is very natural to him to be a part of your family and follow your lead.
#3 – Standard Poodle
I have a Standard Poodle that I rescued from a bad situation. She is very adept at being everything to everyone in our family. My husband likes to cuddle her. My son likes to actively play with her and her toys and I like to take her with me wherever I go. She would never dream of biting any of us and is tolerant and respectful. She (like many Poodles) is very intelligent and knows many commands, having achieved her AKC Canine Good Citizen Certificate.
#4 – Pit Bull
Pit bulls are frequently associated with attacking children and I cannot deny that this has occurred. You should always know the individual dog before allowing children to interact with it, but in my experience, these dogs have lovely temperaments. They are stoic and brave, so inquisitive children tugging on ears and tail are taken in stride. So many of our shelter dogs can be traced to this breed, it is a good thing that they make excellent family dogs. You will not go wrong with a carefully selected Pit Bull type dog.
#5 – The Good Ole Mutt
Dogs of questionable ancestry are everywhere. Your perfect family dog awaits you at your local rescue. The best part about these dogs is that you can interview the actual dog and talk with the rescue staff about its temperament and suitability for your home. Most of these dogs are old enough that their adult weight can be accurately estimated and if you really must know, your veterinarian can do a DNA test to tell you exactly who your dog is. Many agencies can arrange a foster situation so you can truly find out if the dog is a perfect fit for you in your own home.
Whether you want a “one of a kind mutt” or a purebred companion, you are right to do your research. Read everything you can about prospective breeds. If you can spend time with the dog itself, even better. This list does not include many breeds and types of dogs that I adore. Take time to think about what you want in a dog. Talk to your vet and dog trainer. Think about your home and your yard and the time you have to devote to your dog. Planning is everything. This is not the time for an impulse choice based on cuteness or neediness. This is a lifelong commitment. Being prepared can make it a wonderful experience for your whole family, including your dog.
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